It’s been some time since my last update here. I’ve recently entered singlehood after a 17-year relationship. I’ll omit the painful details, but I’m open to sharing the insights I’ve gained since he departed our home.
Though this wasn’t my first breakup, it felt completely different. The echoes of past traumas resurfaced. In the beginning, it took a while for me to recover from the initial shock and work through the various stages of grief.
At first, he was the chef, and I relied on him for cooking and grocery shopping. Being catered to was enjoyable, but I didn’t anticipate the detrimental effect on my self-reliance. It left me feeling dependent, a condition I had always tried to evade. It’s something you don’t realize at the moment.
As time passed, I learned to function independently and I’m proud to say that I’m still standing strong.
A year and a half has passed, and I’m still in this house. I’ve been unable to sell it despite doing everything possible to prepare it. I feel it’s time to begin my new life, yet it seems the universe has different plans for me. I persist in journaling, and with every moment that passes, new insights reveal themselves to me. I remain patient, immersing myself in each revelation.
I’ve always understood that loss isn’t confined to death. Yet, the magnitude of loss I’m experiencing feels overwhelming. Nevertheless, I’ve come to understand that healing from my partner’s departure is perhaps necessary before I can start to move forward. As I downsize and transition to a new area, the life I once knew seems to be fading away continuously. I am ready and willing to embrace the act of letting go.
Certified Specialist in End of Life and Grief
I have learned over the years, that we have the ability to heal ourselves. We create our illness. However, we can also create our wellness. The moment has arrived. I am elevated by the legacy of numerous luminaries in the field of healing. With over 40 years of study in the field of natural and alternative healing, I have amassed a wealth of knowledge from reading numerous books on various healing methods. These books span a range of cultures and philosophies, and I take pleasure in comparing and contrasting their differences. Through this blog, my aim is to assist you in deciphering the information and modalities available. It serves as an informative guide on your personal journey to self-healing. There are numerous methods for accomplishing the same task. Many ideas share a common concept yet are known by different names. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that we must heal ourselves on every level—Mind, Body, and Spirit—and seek the answers within ourselves." I am a certified Reiki Master/Teacher and a Master Energy Healer of (Human Energy Field Activation) HEFA. I have a bachelor's in communication along with graduate studies in Stategic leadership and personal development. During my lifetime I acquired skills working at a woman's center helping abused woman of domestic violence and sexual assault/ Worked at HeadStart extended day program helping Single parents get on their feet as a family advocate, Over the past few years, I have assisted several individuals coping with loss, particularly parents who have endured the pain of losing a child, as I have. I am currently pursuing a certificate to become a Death Doula, which will enable me to support people in advance planning and serve as a grief coach.
I am Hyla, (a certified educator in end-of-life care with a focus on grief. The realization that we possess the ability to heal ourselves is a significant insight shared by numerous wisdom traditions and contemporary leaders. This understanding highlights the natural resilience and healing potential of our body and spirit. It also reveals how our thoughts, emotions, and actions can profoundly impact our health and well-being. By recognizing our part in shaping our wellness or illness, we take control, enabling ourselves to initiate positive changes and assume responsibility for our healing process. This change in perception unveils a realm of possibilities, constantly reminding us that opportunities for transformation and rejuvenation are ever-present.
In this moment of inspiration, we draw wisdom from luminaries in the field of healing. Their legacies serve as guiding lights, illuminating the path toward holistic well-being and personal empowerment. Whether ancient or modern, their collective legacy inspires us to explore diverse approaches to wholeness. Their enduring influence urges us to embrace a multidimensional understanding of health and integrate their teachings into our lives, shaping our journey toward vitality and balance.
With over 40 years of study in the field of natural and alternative healing, I have amassed a wealth of knowledge from reading numerous books on various healing methods. These books span a range of cultures and philosophies, and I take pleasure in comparing and contrasting their differences. Through this blog, I aim to assist you in deciphering the available information and modalities. This blog serves as an informative guide on your personal journey to self-healing.
There are numerous methods for accomplishing the same task. Many ideas share a common concept yet are known by different names. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that we must heal ourselves on every level—Mind, Body, and Spirit—and seek the answers within ourselves."
Remember that grief is a unique and personal journey, and each individual copes differently. As a coach, my role is to provide support, validate emotions, and help clients find their own path toward healing and acceptance. 🌿 Disclaimer: Should you be on any other medication, have a medical condition, or have any concerns regarding the advice or ingredients, please consult your doctor before using my services.
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Lady Hy: WisdomKeeper 
Very interesting. I had no idea you were still missing D, considering how miserab
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I miss the original relationship we once had before things changed.
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